Change Your Identity, Change Your Life

What are your subconscious blocks? Like, how are you really thinking, right? And we have like specific tools where you can start to ask yourself, who am I? This is the biggest question that we use, who am I?

So beyond being a mother, being a professional or entrepreneur, who are you? What kind of words do you talk about yourself? What kind of things you say? What are the labels and titles you use?

A lot of people say, I'm a night owl. Oh, you think you're a night owl or you are a night owl? Welcome to the Thrive Her podcast. I'm your host, Amy Sanders.

I'm a fitness and wellness pro, mom, stepmom, second wife and master certified life coach. I'm here to help you manage your mind so you can uncover the most potent version of yourself and create a thriving life you love. Welcome back to the podcast, everyone. My name is Amy Sanders.

I'm your host and I have an awesome guest with me today. I'm so excited. I think I say that every time because I really am so excited to bring on Annam Hyatt because her and I are women of, we just vibe the same. And she is, she looks at things very similar to how I do, but she has a little bit of a different twist.

And she's all about helping you become like, your truest self, helping you step into your identity, which actually then helps you get everything that you want. So with her, once she really discovered this, she was able to take traditional principles of manifestation and then literally make her monthly income or her annual income, her monthly income. And she's created programs. She's a thought leader.

She's a speaker. She's a pioneer in this industry. Like I could literally keep going because her bio is really long, but instead of, instead of me just saying that I'm just going to bring her on and welcome Annam to the podcast. I'm so excited to have you here.

Hey, I'm so excited. I'm so excited to be here. Thank you so much for such a lovely intro. Thank you.

So happy to be here. Yeah. So Annam, let's just talk about it. So you're also a mom.

So Annam's like a serial entrepreneur. She's a mom. She's like creating all kinds of waves in this industry and you just do it all from your house. Yep.

Yeah. And then four kids under, eight. Four kids under eight. Yeah.

She's asked me before. She's like, how do you do it? I don't know how I'm supposed to keep doing this. I'm like, what are you talking about?

You're like doing it like amazingly. So yeah. Tell me a little bit about your journey of just how you came onto this and what this has looked like as you've continually built it. Okay.

So when I stumbled on this thing of manifestation, I was blown away. I was like, this is the greatest thing on the planet. We have to tell it to everybody. Like everybody we know.

And before I knew it, I was like, it's not worth the king when you can manifest some things really well. But when it comes to like big things, like your real success and you're thinking why it's taking forever, why it's not working. And what I realized was that my struggle became my biggest power because what I realized that so many people in the manifestation space are really trying to visualize using tools. Manifestation hacks, but what they're really missing in the whole puzzle is themselves is who they are because we manifest who we are.

So it's about becoming a match. It's about stepping into that elevated version of herself. And what I realized was that it doesn't even require changing anything about you. And I know that's a bit of a twist.

What do you mean? Because what it really requires is the way you changing the way you see you. So what happened was that. I was.

Living at that time in a one bedroom flat in greater London. So just outside, like in zone six, and I really wanted a big mention, like big mention, I had this desire is I want to hold huge parties. We have a lot of people in our family. I want to invite everybody over.

I'm going to have like huge meals and I want to do this. And everybody was laughing at us. Like whenever we talked about. Even my husband was believing, but he was still like on the edge, but then I fell in love with.

The idea of manifesting. And I thought let's manifest it. But when I really started to crack the identity piece, that means becoming that version of me who lives in that mansion, even when I was living in one bedroom. And I think the biggest piece of the puzzle is really feeling the feeling all day, which we are all told, stay in your vortex, feel the feeling.

But the question is how am I supposed to feel the feeling all day? Oh, you have to be detached, but how, or you don't have to worry about the how, but how do I not worry about the how? Like how? Tell me how.

So, oh yeah, like how, not how it's we are told all those things, but when it comes to like practically doing that, it becomes, it becomes, it's not as easy as just said, because there is a whole mental science behind that. And that's what I discovered that it's not just, I tell somebody feel the feeling and they will feel it. It's your, you have a mental program that controls you 98%. And it also controls you, how you feel.

So if you tell somebody, oh, just feel good. Or just feel the feeling. They cannot. So you cannot just tell them it's about shifting the identity.

It's about really, Neville Goddard says that it's about, it's a mental transformation where you fully transform and you start to see yourself different. You start to step in that version. You start to release the deep seated. I don't even say subconscious anymore because it's stored in your body.

So it's identity blocks. It's not just mindset. Money is not just about mindset. It's about your body.

Like those blocks are stored in your body. So it's really about releasing all of that and stepping in that version. And when you do that, then that thing becomes natural. So when I really started to get hold of that, what happened was all of a sudden, literally bridge of incidents started to unfold.

And I got, we saw this house one weekend, like my husband messaged me at work first. And he was like, there's this house, which is like 22 rooms. It has like huge garden. It's a huge house on a huge area.

And there's the gardens, like a whole field. And I was like, that can't be true. I think it's fake. Like they're just joking.

So this can't be actually true. So when I, when my husband and I went to see that house, he literally, we were blown away. We were like, this can't be true. This doesn't, I literally felt like I need somebody to be with me.

I'm going to get lost in this house. And then we made a decision. We want that, but we couldn't afford that. There was no way we could get the mortgage.

Our salaries were not like that. But because of doing this identity work, I literally got promoted within a week. And I had three shifts in my, three jumps. Just after the interview, the same second I got a call that you've got the job.

And it was three jumps from my current position. Can you imagine three jumps from my current position? Oh my God. Sorry.

We have to cut that part. I'm so sorry. Jasmine, go to Naman. Don't disturb my name.

Okay. Go to Naman. Oh my God. So we, we were, I got the job.

I got the share, like the triple promotion in my job. My husband got his salary increased like by five times because he became a contractor. He became self-employed. And then as far as the deposit goes, all of a sudden, like we realized that the shares we invested in one of the companies, their share price shot up like five times.

And the money that we had, I think we had 20,000. And it became a hundred thousand and all of us like crazy things happen. And we manifested that house, right? So yes, crazy manifestations happen.

Things work. This is not, this is normal, but when and how do these things happen? They happen when you become a match. They become, when you become that version of you.

And it's not what I realized. Well, it's not even about any, it's not like you sit and you visualize and you're sitting on your meditation mat. And things are coming magically. It's like you are mentally programmed.

And when you start to think and feel and act in alignment, then you're on that frequency. But also your mind is supporting all of that and your body is supporting all of that. And it happens so naturally. There is a whole science behind just feel the feeling.

Yeah. Feel the feeling. You hear it all the time. So I'm sure people are tuning in and they're like, well, but how do we be that person?

Like you're saying how? But like, how do we take on that identity? What does that even look like? What did you do?

Like those questions, I'm sure are just rattling in people's heads. We have, what I did was I started to really coin my own processes as I was learning this. So I came up with this thing called breakthrough method where, and I've kept on perfecting and building it over time for a very long time. But I feel like this method really helps you like born again.

Like I literally, the clients that I started working with. When they would do this breakthrough method, they would be a completely different person. And I would think, are you the same person who just hired me? Are you same?

Like, why are you so different? But what we start to really do is if you ask me, what is the crux? What is the thing that we do in that process? We start to really uncover, what do you really think?

How do you really feel? What are your subconscious blocks? Like, how are you really thinking? Right.

And we have like specific tools where you can. Start to ask yourself, who am I? This is the biggest question that we use. Who am I?

So beyond being a mother, being a professional or entrepreneur, who are you? What do you, what kind of words do you talk about yourself? What kind of things you say? What are the labels and titles you use?

A lot of people say, I'm a night owl. Oh, you think you're a night owl or you are a night owl? A lot of people say, I think I'm very slow or I start things and I stop things. But it's not on your birth certificate that you start things and you stop things.

It's who you think that you start and you stop. What we are is not what we actually are because none of that is on our birth certificate. It's what we think we are. And then we become that.

And what we think are a lot of lies that we have been told when we were growing up, when we were little. How about we start to really uncover, like, how do I really see myself? So that's the work we do to really cover that. And then we have to start to ration.

Rationalize that and think, according to who is this true? Like, how can I accept this about me? It's not, how can it be true? Right?

And then you start to, once you start to rationalize them, then you can start to reprogram your mind. Because if you don't rationalize them, then what happens is, let's say you're constantly affirming, I'm a millionaire. I'm so abundant. But your mind is saying, no, you're not.

You're not. And then you're feeling the opposite. You're feeling even more lack. So it's about understanding that who you are.

It's about understanding how you really see you. Yeah. So let me ask you this. By stepping into this identity, like, how do you answer those questions for yourself now?

So me answering those questions is like, I'm constantly observing my thoughts all the time. Yeah. I'm constantly. I'm constantly thinking, like, I'm constantly saying, okay, if this is showing up for me, let's say I'm doing something, right?

The first thing I do is I check my assumptions about me, about my work, about how I'm really thinking, how I'm seeing myself, what kind of things I say about me. And I'm really aware now. So the moment I realize that my assumption is not matching what I'm trying to create, let's say if somebody is working on a strategy, create a strategy. So many people have made millions from it.

It is really good. But if you are not aligned to that strategy, energetically, it's going to fall flat. So what are your assumptions before you're doing your strategy? Like somebody else can do their strategy and they can nail it.

And then why it's not working for somebody else? Because you're not a match. And when you are a match, anything will work. Yeah.

Because your assumptions are there. Yeah. I'm sure a lot of light bulbs are going up. If you don't feel.

If you don't feel good about what you're doing, it's not going to work. Period. Yeah. And I like that what you're saying.

It reminds me of the untethered soul. Have you read that book? Yeah. I love that book.

It's so good. It's such a good book. But like, you're the observer of your thoughts. Like you're not your thoughts.

You're not those things. Like they might be a label, but that doesn't mean that's actually you. I like to think of myself as I'm literally a godly spirit living in this body. I've been given this body and I just can observe.

And look at things through, I like to think of it as more of an internal and universal perspective. Because then it, things that can seem hard don't seem so hard anymore. It's this is life. Okay.

Just being able to see it through a different lens can be really freeing. And it sounds like that's very similar to the way you're observing things. Just very open to what comes up and not necessarily agree. We know that most of the things that we're thinking, most of those thoughts are just lies.

Then we can just look at them like that. Oh, I don't actually have to subscribe to this at all. Exactly. For an entrepreneur, even with marketing strategies or whatever, you don't have to do those things.

What does light you up? What does feel good with how you want to build your business? Because you do get to choose. Exactly.

And also like when we look at our life and when we look at our problems or the things that we are working on, you can always take a different perspective. So it's when you're looking on. The road and you're on third floor versus you're on hundred floor. That's a completely different view.

So when you when you look at your problem or the thing that you're working on from a lower consciousness, it seems very big. It seems very problematic. But our power is that we can rise in consciousness without changing anything in the outside. So you can go right at the hundred floor and you can now start to look at the same thing.

And it seems so small now. And your frequency is so different that. All the ideas and inspired hits and everything is coming because you have just risen from within. So it is really powerful.

The most powerful thing about it is that you don't need to change anything in the outside. You don't even need to change anything about yourself. It's not that you have to in order to have a better identity, you have to go and get another degree or you need to look better. None of that.

You just need to change the way you see you. Yeah. Which seems like easy and hard. Just change the way you see you because because I'm sure a lot of these insecurities and things come up.

How do I get past the fact that I'm not good at this thing? Or how do I get past the fact that I don't like how I look or whatever you might say or that I have these things in my past I'm not proud of? Yeah. That can talk to energy essentially.

Yeah. So, for example, if you don't like the fact the way you look, the question is, are you limited to how you look? Or is it you are a spiritual being in this body? So you're not even limited to the body.

It's not your body is just a it's a thing you're wearing right now. And as you start to see yourself as beautiful, like feeling beautiful, you start to activate beauty. So I've seen so many examples, even in my client's life, where if you just start feeling more beautiful, you activate the vibe of being more beautiful and you just are more beautiful. So there is no such thing as somebody not more beautiful or somebody less beautiful.

It's about how you're seeing yourself from. The eye of your mind. Right. And when and when you do that, all of a sudden, the thing that you didn't like about you starts to feel really good.

So I did this with a lot of my clients. I do this like I tell them that just go and look at yourself and say you're so beautiful. And in the beginning, they're like, oh, I will never do that. That's the last thing I'll do.

That is so hard. And then I say, just start looking at yourself and start with what if you are beautiful? Don't say you are beautiful if you can't get behind it, but say what if you are? So there is a bit of what if there.

And then they start to see it. And then all of a sudden, their reticular activation system, it is a filter in their mind. Now it's changed. And all they're seeing is how beautiful they are.

So going from feeling not beautiful. Now they're focusing on all the things that's beautiful about them. And then that compounds. And now they're focusing more on being beautiful.

And the other thing, if you feel like I'm not good with this. The question is, nobody was born good with anything. But you know that I'm worthy to be good at that. I get to be good at that.

So what if I commit to it because I love myself? Because I'm worth it. And then start with the end in the mind. So what if I start to say that I see myself as successful now?

Why? Because I was born successful. Why? Because I had everything that I would, I ever need.

I was given everything from day one. So I see that. I see me. And the more you see it, the more you become matched.

And this quantum leaping is about. It's about collapsing time where you go in the end and you take on that identity. And you say, I'm going to see me like that. I'm becoming aware of who I really am.

Yeah, I feel like I'm not maybe that good at this. But does it mean I'm not good enough? That means I get to learn that. That means I get to figure that out.

That means I get to figure out from that frequency. So when we are doing things, it's about what is your frequency behind that thing? And if your frequency is that you're a match. If you're a match for that outcome, it doesn't matter what you're doing.

You're the match. Yeah. So powerful and so fun. It's like to look at manifesting.

You literally get to ask, what do I want? And then you get to just decide it's going to happen. And it can happen. I've had the coolest things happen in my life with manifesting.

And it's, I look at it like a game. What do I want? Okay. Who do I need to be now in order to attract that?

Into my life? And what do you think about this? So my views, I'm going to ask you what you think about it. And then I'll tell you my views.

I'm like, which of my direction do I want to do this? So what are your views on just wishing it? Not necessarily doing anything, but just, this is what I want to happen. This is what I want to happen.

This is what's going to happen. What are your thoughts on that? When you're wishing it, it means you haven't jumped. It means you're loaded.

It means you're done. You're daydreaming and you're visualizing, but you're not it. So when you're saying I want it, it means it's not yours yet. But when it's already yours, then receive it and receive it means if you really believe it's yours, you will be that person.

If I tell you right now, there is $10 million waiting for you next door. Would you, if you believe it, would you not go and collect it? But if you don't believe it, you'd be like, oh, there's no point. There's nothing there.

I'm too tired. I can't be bothered. Like I'm busy today. Why would you say that?

Because you don't believe it. You want it, but you don't believe it. So when you are really, when you're fused with that thing, when you see yourself with it, you're going to be that person. And being also means doing what that person does with the frequency that I am that.

So I'm not going to make it happen. I'm just going to receive it. But receiving. So one thing I really love from the science of getting rich, Wallace DeWald's book, which is the greatest book for manifestation.

He said, By thought, the thing you want is brought to you, but by action, you receive it. Yes. If it's already there, go and get it. Go and open the door.

The parcel is there. Bye. That's what I was going to ask. Because I'm like, for me, with the way it works for me, it's I can say, okay, this is what I want.

But then I do have to match my actions in order for it to happen. And that doesn't necessarily mean I need to run myself ragged. But it does mean that I need to put myself out there. And believe that it's coming.

I'm doing my part. And the manifesting will do its part. It's also having that trust. Yeah.

One thing I also realized is that the thing that makes manifestation very unique and very beautiful is that for some people, manifestation is I need to work really hard and then it will happen. And that gets to be true for them because that's their belief system. That's their identity. Right.

For some people, it's just who I am. I love myself. I just do the things naturally. And then it shows up.

That's their identity with manifestation. So even manifestation, you have your unique identity, your unique blueprint. Right. And the way you start to shift it for yourself, whether you want to go into more doing, which works for so many people because that's their identity with manifestation, or you want to go in more being and more feminine and like more receiving and having more time for yourself and self-care, that will work for you.

Yeah. So the way that makes it so interesting and complex at the same time is whatever assumptions you set, they get to be true for you. That's what it will be. In my life, I've had to shift a little bit more.

I think that definitely conditioned to live in masculine energy, which is actually not my true energy. It's a conditioning. And I've had success with it, but I've had to learn how to lean more into my feminine energy because that for me. Is my stronger energy, but I had it like dimmed.

I had it like pushed down because I was so used to just the do-do-go you're like, unless you're creating or being successful at something, you're nothing. So letting go of that has been a chore. But as I've let go of that, it feels so much better. It feels so much more free.

It's like climbing up a mountain to get anything that I wanted to get. And now I'm like, I can just work at the things that I love and trust that it's coming. Like, yeah. And I think the place where everything gets fast track, like everything gets a hundred times more powerful is when you really ask yourself, what is the best of me?

What is the greatest version? If I could be so unapologetically myself and be who I really am. So there is a meditation on my YouTube channel, which I'm going to share the link afterwards, but it's really powerful because I help you see who your grandest version is. There is a version of you right now, which is mighty.

Mind blowing, like within all of us, which is, oh my God, like it puts my soul on fire. If I think of them as, oh, it's like ecstasy, you know, that feeling. And that version of you is a match when you don't have to work as hard, but to be. Because if you, even if you go on Facebook or Instagram and you see somebody's profile, you get their vibe, you get their energy.

You can tell without even talking to that person, ever having a phone call or anything, you can literally tell their energy, right? Being gets to be so strong. That whatever you do, let's say if you're a coach, you do a webinar, you do a, you write a post, whatever you do, because all of these things work, right? That's why they're called strategies.

Strategy is something that has worked before. So they have worked. Whatever you do, it just clicks. It works.

Not because of the thing, it's because who you are. So when you are showing up for yourself, 92% is your energy, is your being. And when you really tap into that, then all of a sudden there is no limit to what you can manifest. Because by doing, you can only do based on the circumstance or your limitations and hard work and all of that.

But when it, and you start to really tap into the being. So what I do with my, in my life is I have a lot of activators that really help me be that. So I've got my whole playlist. So my playlist is the preview of the life I'm manifesting.

So every song in my playlist is, this is a song for my car. This is a song for my house. This is a song for when I'm having. This is a song for when I'm dressing up.

This is a song for when I'm doing my make, like everything. So when my playlist plays, I'm literally living the whole day like that. So I've lived the whole day in that life. And then I've got this beautiful, I haven't got it right now, but I've got this beautiful like bottle.

Whenever I go, people are like, what is that? What is like a really beautiful crystal bottle? And I, it has got like diamond teeth and a crown. And that reminds me who I am.

Then I've got, I sometimes tend to wear my hats, specific kind of dresses. So I have really instilled things in my life that activate that feeling all the time and remind me who I am. And then I've also got, I get my clients to do that as well. We record a script.

So we write that life and really focus on who you are in that life, focusing on your character, not more on what you have, but who you are. And then we keep listening to it. And that is so powerful. Like every single day without a miss, I get messages like this in my script manifested.

This thing happened because it's so powerful. When you're listening to it in your own voice, it's so powerful because your mind, trust your own voice. Like it's your voice. So we have these things which really help activate the identity.

So when I wake up from the bed, there is something next to me, which reminds me who I am. Then I do my visualization. Then I had my whole studio is, was in my mind. It got manifested.

That reminds me of everything in my life. I have created a neural connection. That means. When I see that automatically, it brings that connection.

And that's how for me to stay in that feeling is so easy because everything is screaming and everything. Look who you are. So I sometimes literally forget. And what is in the 3D?

What is it in the physical reality? What is in my imagination? Everything is here and I see it. Amazing.

And that's a really, that's a good practice that I'm only partially doing. I don't have my own voice speaking to me. That's. So easy thing to implement to then have that be there.

And then reminders right from the second you wake up so powerful and everywhere you go. Reminders. I have my places like where I do the things I do my manifesting, whatever, but like, I don't have them everywhere. I'm like thinking about my life.

Although I do love where I live and it's like my house is reminders. There's stuff like that's a reminder. But what you're saying is like all those little things that put you in that activator energy in that energy is just going to help. Help your whole body, like your being, your subconscious, whatever you want to say, the whole thing.

Bring it forward now. Yeah. And one thing I did really fun experiment. So there is this song by Drake.

It has nothing to do with money, but I love playing with like different money frequencies. So money goals. I love doing that for fun. That's my hobby.

Right. So like choosing different money frequencies, like choosing one. And then I would manifest that by stepping into that version. So there is a song by Drake.

Which has no money in it. There is no mention of money. The song is called Massive. So it's, he talks about his life.

He doesn't even not mention money once, but I program my mind. So every time I play that song, I told my mind when this music plays, like it has a very specific music, like very fast and specific music. It means the numbers in my bank account, because nowadays everything is digital. So I visualize digitally that digital numbers are increasing.

So I could see like numbers going up. Right. And I would play that song. And especially when you're dropping your kids to school, when you're coming back, when you're doing your stuff, mom stuff, mom duties, I used to play that.

And I said, what if I do a frequency where every time I spend money, I get double. So I called that bottomless bank account. That's what my podcast name is. Bottomless bank account.

So I was like, that'd be fun. So I wasn't attached to it because I didn't really need it. I'm very happy with the money and everything. It's perfect.

I manifested frequency. So I'm fine with it, but I was like, it'll be fun. I'm going to try it. So I did it for a few days.

So I would play that song and I would feel the digital number growing up and really feel having so much money. And then I noticed after, I think it was a week or so. I spend money. And the same day there was a transaction of double, like my payment came in.

And then did it again. I was like, oh, this is crazy. So I wrote a post on my social. I was like, this is crazy.

I want to tell you something. This is insane. And then there was one transaction I did for $8,000. And I was like, I'm going to do it.

I'm going to do it. And I was like, I'm going to do it. I'm going to do it. this is a big transaction okay okay all right let's test this you're like okay exactly let's test this but i still i wasn't attached because and i was like i don't care like i love that song and stuff and i did that and literally within 24 hours i had 16 000 and something awesome i love it so much and then today i went for i went to get my hair done and something and i had some transactions and i came home and i was just checking my laptop forgetting about bottomless because i was just checking my laptop and again transaction and once i went out with my husband and it was his birthday was coming and he's do you want to buy me a gift and every month every year you go crazy what you want to buy so we are at here in uk we have marks and so he loves that just buy me a few clothes so he picked the clothes and i just paid and i was bringing four kids and i said they're under it i was bringing him to the car because he was coming and our parking was running out so i was bringing them back and i was like guys listen to me so i wasn't thinking about bottomless that was a lot thing i was thinking right now because there's crossing the road and holding my two-year-old and all that and then all of a sudden i check my phone and again bottomless like double transaction than what i paid as far as money is fun like it's the frequency but only visualization and only feeling activation won't work if you have a block right and i used to hate this word block if somebody said block to me i want to smash their face because what do you mean i'm blocked like you want my key but what we want to understand is that our blocks are little like bruises right if you go to an experience in your life where let's say you were disappointed or something didn't happen so now anytime you start to do new things and you will try something you will never do something that could potentially disappoint you so disappointment is your block right so we have to release those but once you do that you can play with money frequencies is so much fun it's so much fun it's so much fun it's so much fun it's so much fun so much fun like is the greatest thing on the planet to play with it it's a game it becomes a game it's really and then as it happens you're like everyone needs to know about this this is so cool you know you're like what else can i do so awesome man adam you have shared so many things with us so in wrapping up what is one last little nugget that you'd like to leave with the audience so what i would leave the audience with that whenever you're doing something the normal question is how but the real question is who do i need to be and then a deeper question is how do i need to see me that is the answer and that is the how so who is the how who is that how do i need to see me yes so powerful i love it so much thank you so much for being on the podcast i'm sure that people want to get a hold of annum so all of her information is in the show notes make sure you check it out she has the breakthrough method like you heard here and she also has other resources as well she it's just you know i've got my money program which i'm offering for absolutely free because i think after doing all this it's like everybody needs to know this really everybody needs to know this so i'm gonna share the link it's called match because it's about becoming a match it's absolutely free it's incredible it's literally i've given my heart and soul and everything i've done in that that was really i would put in the link but it's so good so good beware guys just giving you a free gift so awesome thank you so much for being on and everyone else i will be back here next week with another episode we'll see you guys later bye hey if you enjoyed listening to this podcast you've got to come check out my signature program thrive her academy this is where we do real coaching and inner work transformation i teach you how to apply the strategies and mindset tools we talk about here on the podcast so you can create that life and business that you love for more information go to www.

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